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i think feminism is really great and important but some people on this website use it as an excuse to be absolute dickwads to boys and it seems like they are striving for dominance, not equality.
i am a 16 year old girl
A Letter to my Roommate
As the school term ends in a month, we will also be moving out and will no longer be roommates. Before I go, I have some explaining to do. During the first term when we first moved in together, I agreed to this arrangement because in my group of friends, we had a group of 5 and the max number of people in a residence suite was four. I ultimately decided that I would go find other people so that the arrangements would work out for my other friends. Do you think that I wanted to leave my friends? Of course not. I’d rather have one person make the sacrifice than two people (splitting up our group to live in a 3-person suite instead, and the other 2 with a stranger). So I found our mutual friend (who you were exponentially closer with since you went to high school together), and thought, “better live with somebody that I kind of know than a stranger, right?” I have never been so wrong in my life.
During the first week, I believed that things would be okay and that we even had potential to become good friends. But when you and our mutual friend had conversations, it was all about your high school. How could I possibly join into a conversation that I knew absolutely nothing about? I didn’t know how I could continue a conversation about teachers and classmates that I have never even heard of or met. During those times, I would leave and go to my friends’ suite. As time passed, the communication between us lessened and lessened, and in the end you wouldn’t even say a single word to me. You would only say “hi” to me when I said “hi” to you first. Why would I want to be in a place with such exclusivity, when I could be with my friends who were welcoming? So when you subtweeted me, saying things like “fucking move your ass on out, you’re the one who agreed to this shit, pls leave”, you have to understand: I wasn’t aware that I was agreeing to live in such a negative atmosphere.
I don’t know how one person could possibly hurt me and make me cry so much, but you have to understand that I tried my best to be considerate and be a good roommate. I don’t know what I have done to spite you. I tried my best to be mindful and accommodating; I would listen to my music with earphones on and try to stay as quiet as possible so that you could study well, while you on the other hand would belt out songs in the morning or while I’m studying, waking me up or forcing me to work in the library endlessly. I would move all my work to our kitchen area so that you could use the room that we share to sleep peacefully in the dark. When I had to wake up before you in the mornings, I would move out everything I needed for the next day to the living area so that I could be as quiet as possible and not disturb your sleep.
So when you say things like: “Do you ever feel the sudden need to kill a person, even if you have no reason to think so? …trust me, I’m actually a nice person” or “I’ve been in such a violent mood these days.”, it makes me extremely uncomfortable to know that the only thing that separates us is a door that I cannot even lock. Although I too cannot say that I am entirely fond of you, I would never even consider killing you, or anyone in my lifetime. And when you say “it’s okay, I hate you too :)”, you can honestly stop repeating it. I can tell by your actions, and I do not need to be reminded on a daily basis how uncomfortable you make me feel by being surrounded with so much negative energy. And when you say “I think part, if not a good deal, of the reason why I hate being here is b/c of my living arrangements as of now”, be grateful that you at least have a close friend that you can talk to here. Be grateful that you did not have to feel left out like I did. Be grateful that you do not have a roommate that has sudden needs to kill you, and nowhere to hide.
Before I move out, I want you to think about how it feels to be in my shoes. If you felt left out, wouldn’t you also go to a place where you know that your friends actually care about you and enjoy talking to you? Is that even a question? You don’t know how many times I’ve had to keep telling myself, “be strong, lions do not lose sleep over the opinions of sheep”, and I tried to be the better person, but I guess trying my best just isn’t enough for you.
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See you in hell
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